Greek Wedding Traditions
Greek weddings are steeped in romanticism, tradition, and family. From the moment a couple becomes engaged, the wedding well underway. Greek weddings are celebrated in an array of exciting and unique ways, both modern and traditional. Having participated in several of these weddings myself, I can attest to the beauty and pageantry of the ceremonies.
The Engagement
The first step in the Greek wedding tradition is the engagement. This is usually a formal affair, with the groom presenting the bride-to-be with a diamond or gold ring. The couple stands in the middle of the room surrounded by family, who offer their blessings and gifts. The couple also exchanges symbolic gifts, such as a gold coin, a silk scarf, and a silver tray full of sweets. After the engagement, the couple usually announces the wedding date.
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The Pre-Wedding Celebrations
The pre-wedding celebration usually lasts several days. During this time, the bride and groom's families meet and get to know each other. On the night before the wedding, friends and family gather for the traditional 'lambada'. This is a joyous party where traditional Greek music is played and the guests dance the night away. On the day of the wedding, the bride and groom visit their local church for the wedding ceremony.
The Ceremony
The wedding ceremony is a beautiful affair, full of symbolism and ritual. The mood is joyful and celebratory as the couple exchange vows and rings. The priest then blesses the couple with a crown of flowers. The crowns are a symbol of the couple's commitment to each other and to God. At the end of the ceremony, the couple is showered with rice and flower petals as they leave the church.
The Reception
The reception is usually a lavish affair, with plenty of food, drinks, and music. Traditional Greek dishes such as spanakopita, souvlaki and moussaka are served. There is also plenty of traditional Greek music and dancing, with the couple often dancing the traditional 'kalamatiano' as their first dance. At the end of the night, the bride and groom are presented with a traditional 'lambada' of gifts from their guests.
The Honeymoon
The honeymoon is the perfect way to end a Greek wedding. The couple usually travels to a romantic destination, such as the Greek Islands, for a week or two of relaxation. This is a chance for the couple to celebrate their love and begins their new life together.
A Lasting Memory
Greek weddings are a beautiful celebration of love and commitment. The traditions are steeped in history and are an integral part of Greek culture. The memories of a Greek wedding will last a lifetime and will be cherished by the couple forever.
Closing Message
Greek weddings are a beautiful and romantic celebration that bring families together to celebrate the union of two people in love. From the engagement to the honeymoon, each stage of the wedding is filled with symbolism and tradition. If you ever find yourself invited to a Greek wedding, you are sure to enjoy the festivities and experience the unique beauty of a traditional Greek wedding.